Building a healthy family

Everything that matters is built. A successful family is not a magic or made of some religious jamborees. The height of every building is determined by the foundation. Do you want to have a healthy family ? Off course I know the answer,its definitely a yes!!!!!!. Then here are five practicable. steps.1 .openness :at the root of many family crisis, secrecy is lurking some where. Just expressing how you feel is what I call openness. Hmm!!! Don’t sweep any issue under the rug because someday it will crawl out. 2.Tolerance: you have to create a little room for offence because it must come. No one has it all, your strength might be your spouse’s weakness. You are the completion of your spouse. Please cut him/her some slack. 3.Giving: off course we know of the popular saying “blessed is the hand that giveth “. You can’t love and not give to your family. They work hand in hand. 4:compliments: instead of complaining everytime try complimenting your spouse, child, and even your siblings. Its like a feul, it motivates them to do better and have a sense of recognition. 5 Always use the three magic words “please, sorry and thanks” .instead of explaining all the time try to start with “please am very sorry and end it with thanks. It works magic, it can calm many angry hearts.Finally, there is nothing like a closed family. You can make that family a healthy one, just with the above steps.